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Written by M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.
Show them who you are
Why do people judge me incorrectly?
These are common questions that i get from the readers of 2knowmyself and the answer to all of these questions is the same: You just don't tell people who you are!
Don't get me wrong, you aren't going to tell people "hey guys am good" but instead you are going to let them conclude that there is something special about you.
in other words you will show people who you are through your actions.
Let me tell you who i am
The first thing that people notice about you will be your looks. The problem with this fact is that even if you are good looking still your looks will be interpreted according to the background of the viewer.
This means that you might be judged as lazy, incompetent, unintelligent or even weak just based on your looks. (see why do people perceive physical looks differently)
In short, you don't have a label written on your forehead that says that you are strong, important or competent and that's why you might get judged incorrectly even if you were good if you didn't show people who you are.
The good news here is that you can use your attitude to let people conclude that you are not that kind of person they meet everyday without even speaking a word.
How to show people who you are
You will never be able to convince someone to believe in something before you believe in it yourself. In the Solid Self confidence program i said that once you believe in yourself making others believe in you won't be a hard task.
You need to feel that you are special and unique. Once you recall this fact your behavior will automatically be changed, you will find yourself walking and talking in a different way.
I can't feel special, something is wrong
While reading the previous lines something might have popped into your mind such as "i am not special because of so and so". While this is a negative thought still its a piece of good news because you now know why you can't feel special.
Fix whatever problem that is preventing you from reaching your real potential and you will be able to feel special. Once you manage to do that you won't have any problem in convincing people that you are special as well.
People fail to feel confident when something holds them back such as that thing that popped into your mind now when you tried to think that you are special. Deal with that thing and you will become truly confident.
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