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How to prevent people from putting you down
Written by M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.
how to prevent people from putting you down
No matter how much self confidence you have or how much faith you have in your abilities you wont be able to prevent your mind from absorbing the negative things that people who put you down say. (see Subconscious mind programming)
I am sure it happened to you before that you were enthusiastic about something then you were put down by a close friend or even a complete stranger. Even if you didn't give up on that goal i am sure you found yourself pursuing it with much less enthusiasm. (see What causes apathy)
So what can a person do to prevent others from putting him down?
Understand the personality of people who put you down
Most people feel down right away as soon as someone tells them anything negative forgetting that they didn't take into consideration an extreemly important factor which is the personality of the person who put them down!
Have you ever went to two different doctors with the same x-ray and got 2 different responses? I once broke one hand and went with the same x-ray to two doctors, the first told me "you will have to give up exercising for a year and half" and the second told me "you will be back in 3 month". After 8 weeks i was lifting heavy once again!
The difference in their advice came from the different personalities those people possessed even though they both had the same level of knowledge. The first was a pessimist and a cautious person while the second was a risk taker and a more optimistic person.
When you start examining the negative comment you received from a person in the context of his own personality you will get a completely different meanings out of that negative comment!
Examples of biased negative comments:
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